Need to Fake an Orgasm? There’s an ‘Intimacy Choreographer’ for That

(NYTimes) STRATFORD, Ontario — On the last Saturday afternoon in May, when the season’s first productions at the Stratford Festival were still in previews, visitors to its Tom Patterson Theater were greeted with two warnings at the auditorium entrance. One was the usual kind of advisory, a heads-up that the show they were about to see contained fog, haze, strobe lighting and mature content.

The other sign, in a bold black frame, was more eyebrow-raising — partly because the phrase “mature content” had evidently been judged insufficient on its own. “This production includes explicit scenes of erotocism,” the second warning read.

Aside from the misspelling, it wasn’t wrong. The director Jillian Keiley’s feminist staging of “Bakkhai” — a new translation, by the poet and classicist Anne Carson, of Euripides’ ancient Greek tragedy “The Bacchae” — practically pulses with sexual pleasure, almost all of it female. The women in the play, followers of the god Dionysos, revel in their carnality without self-consciousness or shame — a theme Ms. Keiley was deeply interested in exploring in her dreamlike production, which is lush with music and dance.

She knew, though, that she would be embarrassed by some of the things she needed to ask her actors to do — not nudity, which she deemed unnecessary, but sexual touching, movement and sound. Even talking about sex, she can get shy, and she feared she might transmit that discomfort to her actors. “The last thing in the world that I would want to do is make people feel inhibited in rehearsal,” said Ms. Keiley, now in her fourth season at Stratford. So she called in an intimacy choreographer.

If you’ve never heard of such a thing, neither had Ms. Keiley until she read an article last year in the Toronto magazine Now, about an Oklahoma City woman, Tonia Sina, who teaches a codified method of approaching onstage intimacy. Rather than leaving actors to improvise their way through creating a sex scene, as often happens, Ms. Sina designs a choreography that is as structured as the steps of a dance or the pivots and parries of a sword fight

“I can certainly foresee that job description being useful,” said the director Mark Wing-Davey, who as chair of the graduate acting program at N.Y.U.’s Tisch School of the Arts introduced a class this spring called Sex on Stage. Meant to give actors “confidence about boundaries and techniques” when a production asks them to simulate sex, it was taught by Mr. Wing-Davey, “partly because I’m used to staging scenes like that,” he said.

Ms. Sina, left, during a rehearsal of “Bakkhai.” CreditAngela Lewis for The New York Times

To handle the steamier moments in “Bakkhai,” the Stratford Festival hired Ms. Sina. Late in the day after the show’s first preview, with Ms. Sina there to do some fine tuning, the actresses who play the bakkhai reassembled at the Patterson Theater, a converted curling rink a couple of doors down from a hockey arena. Onstage, the red centerpiece of the set looked like a leaf topped with a raised altar — and also, at certain angles, like a stylized vulva.

Ms. Keiley is not keen on having that resemblance, which is intentional, brought up. “I don’t want people to say, ‘Oh, that’s the show with the vulva set,’” she said. Ms. Sina, who comes across as constitutionally unflappable on matters of sex, seemed by contrast to relish it, freely pointing it out.

For Ms. Sina, the task in that rehearsal was to amp up the frenzy in an unbridled scene of group ecstasy — not quite an orgy, but something like it, all in a swirl of long veils and floor-length skirts. Seeking the performers’ consent for each sensitive adjustment, and fielding sporadic requests from Ms. Keiley, who watched from the sidelines, Ms. Sina added more kisses and roaming hands, more overlapping of bodies. And maybe it would be nice to have a pelvic thrust from one woman as she straddled another?

“But not like a jack rabbit,” Ms. Sina instructed Laura Condlln, who was doing the straddling. “We actually need to isolate the pelvis.”

“Wow,” Ms. Condlln said, about to try it. “I love that everybody’s watching this. Everybody, just close your eyes for a minute.” Her colleagues laughed warmly, and kept watching.

Ms. Sina was a graduate student at Virginia Commonwealth University, studying theater pedagogy with an emphasis in movement, when she began choreographing sex scenes for student productions. “I was noticing that it was very similar to fight directing,” she recalled in an interview. “It’s just a different side of the coin, and it had to be much more specific. Every finger was important.” Her thesis, in 2006, was titled “Intimate Encounters; Staging Intimacy and Sensuality.” More recently, she started an association called Intimacy Directors International, but so far it has only a handful of members.

Her method borrows from the protocols of fight direction, with the same allegiance to keeping actors safe in potentially dangerous circumstances. “With stage combat, you can get stabbed in the eye or punched in the face,” she said. “This is emotional and mental health, which is just as important.

A scene from “Bakkhai,” part of the Stratford Festival. CreditCylla von Tiedemann

The risks inherent in stage intimacy include sexual harassment and romantic entanglement. Ms. Sina said safety depended partly on clear and respectful discussion, partly on always having a third party in the room to observe any rehearsal and also on strict adherence to the choreography.

“Once they have the skeleton of the scene, then the actors can feel free to improv within the moves that I’ve given them,” Ms. Sina said. “And there’s no surprises. There’s no ‘Where is his hand going? Is he doing that on purpose? Is that him or is that the character? Do I have feelings for him now? Does he like me?’”

The Stratford Festival is Ms. Sina’s most prestigious gig thus far in a career built more on giving workshops about stage intimacy than on choreographing professional productions.

Ms. Condlln, who had done only one onstage sex scene before “Bakkhai,” said that Ms. Sina’s presence allowed the company to have “really fluid communication” about the moments of intimacy. Ms. Condlln, too, likened the practical, technical nature of the work to stage fighting, which is tightly planned even when it feels explosive to the audience.

“Inside the fight, it’s like paint by numbers,” she said. “And there’s something about Tonia’s building a vocabulary that she’s endeavoring to make the intimacy the same. So that in the throes of onstage passion, things never wander. Nobody ever gets lost along the way, and therefore everybody is safe.”

One of the most erotic moments in Ms. Keiley’s “Bakkhai” is the transformation of Pentheus, the play’s Dionysos-hating ruler, into a woman. The metamorphosis is simultaneous with Pentheus’s sexual awakening, and it culminates in an orgasm. Part of Ms. Sina’s job was helping Gordon S. Miller, who plays Pentheus, understand how to portray a woman’s orgasm.

“Tonia did a lot of vocalizations for me,” Mr. Miller said, “even recorded basically a track for me that I could follow from the get-go of how to escalate, how to use the breath — tension in the body and release.”

Ms. Sina, whose research included watching a lot of pornography created from a female point of view, also showed the women in the cast how to express an orgasm in performance.

“That was a really, really helpful thing to do,” Ms. Keiley said. “Nobody has to bring their personal experience onstage. Nobody has to say, ‘Well, this is what I’m like in the bedroom.’ That’s very exposing, you know, asking people to improvise that stuff. You really have to be aware that that’s private.”

There is a need, Mr. Miller said, for someone with the right set of skills — and here he included both Ms. Sina and Ms. Keiley — to guide actors in performing intimacy. “Because it is going to get personal,” he added. “It’s exhausting work because it demands so much vulnerability and sensitivity, and it can be emotional.”

The method he learned from Ms. Sina will travel with him to other productions, he said, and likewise the understanding that there is a better way to handle sex scenes than leaving actors to figure them out on their own.

As for Ms. Keiley, her work on “Bakkhai” has made her vastly more comfortable talking about sex and anatomy. Still, she is not sure she’s ready to forgo using an intimacy choreographer.

“There’s a language around intimacy that would make an actor feel vulnerable, and there’s a language that will make them feel that you’re just dealing with business,” she said. “I think I’d need to learn a bit more.”

But if she were to go it alone?

“I probably would be a bit braver,” she said good-humoredly. “I can certainly stage a pretty good kiss now.”

Sex Underwater – The Facts About Underwater Sex

Under water sex sounds hot right? Two almost naked bodies glistening in the summer sun… A flirtatious splish, a friendly splash, your body weightlessly wrapped around his for an intimate kiss and some cheeky under water touching.

It is hot, and it’s definitely easy to get carried away with the motions of the ocean when the touching develops into bona fide bumping and grinding. But before you go grabbing your bikini and your man you may want to consider the following facts regarding your health and under water sex.

SEX IN THE WATER FACTS

1. Water does nothing but wash your natural lubrication away. Making under water sex awkward and uncomfortable.

2. Chlorinated or salt water are not ideal to get inside a woman. It will cause discomfort and irritation in such a sensitive area.

3. Sex underwater is difficult to practice safe sex. Even if you do manage to come prepared with protection, chlorinated or salt water do not mix with condoms.

Basically, if you want to stay healthy, comfortable and also actually enjoy the whole experience, sex in a pool, in the ocean, anal sex under water or basically any form of penetrative sex in the water is better left for dry ground.

SO WHAT IS UNDER WATER SEX GOOD FOR?

Foreplay! And lots of it! So we’re back at the beach, you’re feeling great in your bikini and he’s looking oh so hot in his swimmers. Let your mind get carried away with a little fantasy and enjoy your time together by letting the anticipation build. By not being able to have actual sex underwater (besides the innocent foreplay) you are both going to be crazy randy for it by the time you get back to dry land. Importantly your mind is going to be ready for sex and in turn your body is also going to be well on its way.

SEX IN A POOL

But for those who still want to experiment, you can try oral sex in the water. This is easiest in a spa or on the steps of a pool with you sitting on the edge to avoid chlorine getting in to your vagina. If you’re keen you can even try giving him a blow job under water, still by the safety and relative comfort by the side of the pool.

If you are super eager and are already very comfortable with regular anal sex, you can try for anal sex under water. Although it is possible to experiment with in a pool or spa, you will definitely still need ample amounts of a silicone-based lubricant. And although this lube is condom safe, and water resistant just be mindful that it is likely to cause a bit of a mess, and chlorine and anal sex under water will usually only result in one thing: Ring Sting!

All in all remember that sex in the water equals excellent foreplay. So enjoy your day at the beach or the pool, come out of the water and share a kiss, wrapped together in one big fluffy towel… then race home to your bedroom.

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A New Way to Avoid an Embarrassing Male Sexual Problem?

By Robert Preidt, HealthDay Reporter



MONDAY, May 15, 2017 (HealthDay News) — Men troubled by the embarrassment of premature ejaculation might soon have an easy way to avoid it, new research suggests.

Special “wipes” embedded with a mild anesthetic — benzocaine — appear to help reduce premature ejaculation, a small new study has found.

According to the American Urological Association (AUA), premature ejaculation is the most common form of male sexual dysfunction, affecting about one in three men aged 18 to 59.

Currently, drug treatments for premature ejaculation in the United States are limited to creams or sprays, the AUA said.

“Premature ejaculation means ejaculation in less than 2 minutes after penetration,” explained one urologist, Dr. David Samadi. He’s chief of urology at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City.

While benzocaine and other anesthetics have been used before to treat the condition, their use in a bedside wipe is new, he said.

The new study — funded by the wipes’ maker, Veru Healthcare — included 21 men with premature ejaculation who were in monogamous heterosexual relationships.

Fifteen used the wipes, which contain 4 percent benzocaine, while six others received a placebo wipe with no anesthetic.

After two months, the men in the treatment group showed significant improvement in premature ejaculation compared to those in the placebo group, said a team led by Dr. Ridwan Shabsigh, who specializes in men’s sexual health in New York City.

The study was presented May 13 at a meeting of the American Urological Association. Findings presented at medical meetings should be considered preliminary until published in a peer-reviewed journal.

“This study is encouraging in demonstrating a new and innovative way to reduce the symptoms of premature ejaculation,” AUA spokesman Dr. Tobias Kohler said in a meeting news release.

“Premature ejaculation can cause a variety of issues related to negative feelings and emotions that can lead to problems with sexual relationships. This data shows topical 4 percent benzocaine wipes is a promising therapy to treat the most common form of sexual dysfunction among men,” he said.

Kohler is associate professor and residency program director at the Southern Illinois University School of Medicine.

But Samadi brought up one potential downside: benzocaine’s effect on the man’s sex partner.

“The study has not mentioned a common problem of using topical anesthetics, which is absence of an orgasm in the female partner,” Samadi said. “Topical anesthetics can be absorbed through the vaginal wall and reduce the partner sensation if a condom is not used.”

Dr. Harris Nagler is a urologist at Long Island Jewish Medical Center in New Hyde Park, N.Y. He reviewed the study and agreed that the wipes are a “novel technique for application of topical anesthetic to decrease penile sensitivity and premature ejaculation.”

But he added that the study was small and was also too vague about a number of factors, such as a “lack of consistency of measurement of time to ejaculation.”

And Nagler said topical anesthetics won’t help every man battling premature ejaculation.

That’s because the treatment has “also resulted in erectile dysfunction in some men due to penile numbness, and vaginal insensitivity — affecting partner satisfaction,” Nagler said.

“However, it is reasonable to assume that there would be men who would benefit by this novel approach,” he said.

 

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Erotic massage Bucharest – top salons in town

In Bucharest erotic massage services are very popular. Many people apply for this type of services to solve the lack of tenderness and eroticism.
Usually people have a wrong impression, thinking that this service involves sexual contact, but in reality both the masseuse and the client are prohibited from offering, receiving and demand comprehensive sexual services. Before embarking on this kind of services you should know that you will not get sex but you get privacy, relaxation, erotic massage and completions techniques that do not include sex.

When you arrive at a massage parlor you will be greeted by beautiful masseuses dressed in sexy gowns, dresses, lingerie or swimwear.

You have to choose the masseuse that you most like by attitude, physics, smile, each one of you according to personal criteria. Then, once chosen the masseuse you should decide on the type of massage you want.

You can choose between Swedish massage, Thai massage, relaxation massage, sports massage, hot stone massage, massage in whirlpool, four hands massage, couples massage, swing, erotic massage or lingam massage. Besides all this, according to your fantasies and available masseuses, they can meet up your fantasies of domination verbal or physical and other fetish. After choosing the desired masseuse in the room she will give up her clothes and she will remain nude, all nude she will execute all types of massage above mentioned. If you do not want nudity please specify this.

 

Erotic massage and lingam massage are types of massage made by a masseuse with her whole body. The breasts, bottom, thighs, legs, hands, with feet flat on the customer’s genital area.

On the site you can see the ladies available every time with a photo gallery with real pictures, a few words of description, age, experience, services and massage techniques performed by each one. All you have to do is choose the desired combination.

Our massage salons provides professional, high quality services since 2000. Among our clients there are politicians, businessmen, tourists and local people with above average incomes, all of whom agree that we are a five-star brand.

All masseuses are qualified for therapeutic and relaxation massages, are lawfully employed and own medical tests to date. Besides legality and safety we have made sure that each of the 30 girls to be beautiful but in a different way so that each of the clients retrieve ideal masseuse.

The lounges are decorated in oriental style, each room represents a a different area, each one is handmade by an interior designer. The colors, the music, the details,the materials are carefully chosen to create a state of relaxation. Everything is sanitized after each client so that you can relax without a care. Each parlor of the three that we have is centrally located in Bucharest, in elegant villas with own parking, air conditioning and approvals from state institutions.

If you want to benefit from relaxing or erotic massage in the comfort of your home or in your hotel room, you can choose desired masseuse from the gallery, make an appointment and the chosen masseuse will reach you within 30 minutes or at the appointed time . When it has reached the masseuse will have a badge and the invoice and of course the goods needed for massage. All you have to do, if you want, is to open a champagne bottle, choose some beautiful music and take a shower. Showering you can also do when the girls is arrived, together with it.

If you have not experienced before an erotic massage or a relaxing massage performed by a beautiful nude masseuse, if you want to see another joy of life we recommend you to visit our salons and to schedule a meeting.

Will be more than massage. It will be a unique experience, an adventure!

Why Are Some Women Sex Addicts/Love Addicts?

“There are a number of fallacies associated with female sex addiction-including that females simply cannot be sex addicts-that they are more likely to be “relationship” or “love addicts.” The reality, however, is that female sex addicts do exist-and may exist in far greater numbers than we’re aware of.” -Robert Weiss, LCSW, CSAT, author and Founding Director of the Sexual Recovery Institute in Los Angeles

Since the beginning of time, sex has given women power in relationships. They may use it as a bargaining chip with men; it may be used overtly or covertly, but many men will admit to being willing to do almost anything for sex or for a woman willing to give them sex. Women are not usually portrayed in this manner. The common stereotype is of a long-suffering, grudgingly-submitting-to-sex, manipulative wife. In truth, this changed to a more realistic picture when the sexual revolution collided with the women’s movement.

Meanwhile, a double standard involving sexuality has existed concurrently and still persists. Men are expected to be sexually active and the reverse is not true for women. Women are supposed to accept men’s use of pornography and openness towards sex, but if they are found to participate in similar behaviors, they are thought of as abominations.

Sex addiction was brought to the forefront after Tiger Woods’ troubles came to light. It has long been assumed that females are “love addicts,” as opposed to “sex addicts” (see above quote). In truth, female sex addicts do exist.

Sex addiction is defined in Wikipedia as “a psychological condition in which an individual has a severe struggle in managing his or her sexual behavior.” Other terms in current use are “sexual dependency” or “sexual compulsivity.”

Although the true origins of anyone’s sex addiction will never be known, any of these, or a combination of more than one, is thought to play a part:

  • Abuse-sexual, emotional, or physical
  • Some other form of early trauma
  • Exposure to sexual situations (behaviors or materials) at too young an age
  • Additional, family-oriented factors

As reported by SexHelp.com, surveys have shown that many sex addicts grow up in dysfunctional families. Often, a family member has another type of addiction (87%). They also claim that research has demonstrated an association between sexual addiction in adulthood and childhood abuse. Sex addicts report experiencing emotional abuse (97%), sexual abuse (83%) and physical abuse (71%).

Traditionally, addiction problems for women include food, shopping and spending money. Sex probably wouldn’t even make the top 10 list. However, women make up about 10% of people seeking help for sex addiction and that is likely just the tip of the iceberg since these are the women seeking help!

In the United States, women have historically been discouraged from being sexually aggressive. Consequently females admitting to sex addiction are rare. More frequently, women are called “nymphomaniacs” or “whores”. These are not terms that women want to be identified with and so they do not get treatment. Additionally, women don’t obtain treatment for sex addiction due to societal mores. Our puritanical American culture, despite a veneer of acceptance, believes casual sex is a sin. Today, it’s OK if women talk about sex as long as it’s within the framework of one’s (proper) relationship. To admit to just wanting sex is inappropriate and forbidden; uninhibited sexual activity outside of or even within marriage is discouraged by society at large.

Help does exist; a twelve step program for sex addicts, “Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous”, encourages women to join and may have meetings for women only. After joining a support group and seeking professional help, women who have a sex/love addiction need to set small recovery goals and celebrate each step that moves them forward into their recovery. They need to realize that treatment will be a difficult, ongoing process, but the freedom from sexual addiction will give their lives more meaning and more possibilities.

Nancy Travers, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, specializes in all types of relationships; dating, existing relationships, family relationships, and relationships with friends and business relationships. She also helps her clients overcome anxiety and depression through talk therapy as well as through hypnosis. What sets her apart from many other counselors is that she has counseled in the gay/lesbian community for over 10 years. She also has experience counseling families with elder care issues. Nancy has been in practice for over 15 years and can provide you with the tools you need to approach dating and relationships with confidence.

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Sex Techniques For You to Hit The G-Spot and Make Her Orgasm Heavily

As we all know, missionary position is the most common sex positions that used by couples. It is not the very best sex position but if you apply the right sex technique, right position and right pressure, this good sex position may turn out to be best sex position as well. To get it excellent, you should learn where the famous G-spot is and how to boost the sensual feeling out of it!

This is a sex technique that you need to action and learn during the process, it is for the pleasure of both of you, gently and carefully find out the G-spot without spoiling the great experience of the love making is extremely important.

Here is the sex technique goes: When she is aroused, put your two fingers into her vagina, while your palm placing on her pubic mound. When your finger is inside, most probably you are able to feel a small lump (coin size) on your fingertips, which is soft and spongy. This is the G-spot which is full of nerve ending. Caress it gently and observe your girl enthusiastic arousal from your finger movement. Try to fine tune a bit of your finger position and make her feel more sensual pleasure.

At this very point, she might want you to inside her or she will let you to serve her until her climax by using finger. Well, when you find the position of G spot, when you enter her, you can try to locate G spot and make the sex to be much more exciting hot sex.

By using missionary position, you can let her lie down while buttock on the edge of the bed, lifting her legs on the air or put on your chest. You can stand or kneel beside the bed (depend on the height of the bed), unsure your penis is at upward angle while inside the vaginal. This will allow the max contact of the penis and the G spot and hence create much more sexual excitement for your girl.

When using this great sex techniques, you should learn how to control the penetration. You should slow down the frequency and increase the pressure of penetration. If you are able hit the G spot, hold for a while to maximize the arousal, simply vibrate a bit may even spice up the sensation.

I believe that you can definitely locate the G spot and make her orgasm like crazy. Try not to stress out to much, sex is a pleasure activity.

 

Go ahead and make some changes, he/she is waiting for a hot sex tonight!

 

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Sex Techniques That Are Awesome and Exciting – You Should Never Miss These!

Friend, if recently you notice one situation that your girl is somehow reluctant to have sex with you or she seems like does not enjoy the sex at all, it is one kind of indication that she may be bored of the sexual relationship with you. This is a serious crisis and it may harm your relationship with her.

There are too many reason that cause this problem but you may go for this direction – The lack of great sex techniques to hit the jackpot. You should definitely try to learn more awesome sex techniques and boost up your man power on bed in order to make her scream crazily on bed!

Actually, it is quite a common scenario that girl loss their final touch of orgasm at the critical time. They somehow feel that it is not as good as they thought or they are distracted by something happening around when having sex. This can also be blamed on your sex technique is unable to fully capture her attention and build up the sexual tension that make her simply focus on having sex. So, now you have to learn a new term – Fuse Blower. This simply means that you should blow your girl at the last touch of peak and cannot let her loss focus. You have to push over the limit and eventually she will reach her climax and grant you her erotic scream!

In order to do so, there are a few simple sex techniques available. I am going to show you two of them:

Great sex technique 1 – Double Grip

If she is riding on you with the cowgirl position, you should give her a unexpected grab over her buttock, she will definitely be turned on because of your powerful grab. This is due to the sensitiveness of human buttock is actually very sensitive to touches because it has lots of nerve ends. Moreover, you can add in some teasing by fondling around her butt during the thrusting, test it yourself!

Well, if you have communicate with her, you can also spank her while in action, but it is not recommended for girls who are a bit conservative and dislike this kind of playful stuff. You have to fine tune the tempo in order to provide the best pleasure for both of you.

Great sex technique 2 – Up Shift

During the missionary position, you got to shift your body and lean forward. The reason behind is that you will have more contact of your penis with her clitoris during thrusting. And with more contact means more sexual arousal for sure.

In order to provide you with more sexy and orgasmic sex techniques tips. You should close her legs and straddle her. By doing so, it will increase the clitoral stimulation and blast her into sexual sensation in an easy way.

I believe that these 2 great sex techniques are not complicated and they will definitely boost the sexual pleasure for both of you. Test them out tonight if you never do them before. You should know that she really desired to have some awesome sex recently, grant her and let her know how good you are!

 

 

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Get the Best Sex Techniques That Blast Your Girl Into Unstoppable Orgasm Tonight!

I strongly believe that you are having similar experience which I had before. Your girl lost her interest in having sex with you, totally different from when both of you were once together. There is no chemistry or sparks when you are having sex. It is hardly to see that she orgasm before yours, or maybe she has totally never orgasm at all.

Why this happen? It has loads of factors that may cause this problem, I cant determine for you. However, there is a very major reason that most people facing the lack of best sex positions that can stimulate the sexual arousal. Great sex positions are very crucial in our sex life. By using not only 1 or 2 but various good sex positions will definitely enhance your love making experience.

However, it is very common that some people are just limited themselves to a few sex positions without paying some effort to get more best sex positions. I presume that you are one of those lazy buggers who lack of some good sex techniques. Hence, I am going to share a few best sex positions that is going to stun your girl and make her want you more!

Here are the best sex positions that bring you more erotic and sensation to your bedroom:

1) Enhanced Missionary Position:
Fine tune the normal missionary position. Spread her leg wide open in the air while she lay on the bed. Knee in between her legs and enter her slowly at first. Check her reaction and start to increase the speed of penetration. This best sex position is going to let you go deeper into her. Fondle her breast or clitoris if it is needed. Kiss her when penetrating her, this will create more pressure on her and hence more sensual pleasure.

2) Leap Frog Position:
This is another form of doggy style which is widely loved by many couples. The different of leap frog position than doggy style is that the girl is kneeling on the bed while her hand also leaning on bed. It is optional for you to open or close the leg. While closing the girl leg will provide more friction when penetrating and hence more sexual pleasure. Moreover, it will limit the penetration depth, some girls do not like deep penetration due to pain.

3) Cow Girl Position:
This is most welcomed by girl and it will be most effortless for you to make her climax. Why so, it is because this best sex position is to let girl to sit or riding on you while making sex. Your erect penis will enter her directly from below. Most of the time, this position allow the girl to take the full control, physically she is able to control the penetration speed,depth and direction; mentally, this will let her to have the feeling of dominating over you and hence it will be easier for her to orgasm. You can fondle her breast or caress her thigh or anywhere. If allowed, you can also make it more exciting by moving your hip and control the penetration.

I believe that above stated advices of best sex positions are going to boost your exciting on bed tonight.

If you are seriously interested in discovering the secrets to better sex you really need to step out of your comfort zone now. With repeating and limited sex techniques [http://www.bestrelationshipdatingtips.com/sex-techniques.html], you are not going to have a great sex.

 

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